Sex Therapy and Sex Counseling
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What is Sex Therapy and Sex Counseling?
Sex therapy and sex counseling is a platform used to treat a variety of sexual issues. These issues can include problems with sexual function, sexual behaviors, differences in sexual attitudes between you and your partner, or anything else that may impact your sex life. Some people are fearful of sex therapy - wondering, "what is sex therapy?" In sex therapy, there are no exams and no touching; it is a form of talk therapy.
Don’t be mistaken though. Sex therapy and sex counseling is not just for those struggling with negative issues. You may seek sex therapy to add more passion, zest, and intimacy to your relationship. Maybe the kids are gone, and you and your partner want a great second phase of your sex life. Sex therapy can help.
Whether you attend alone or with a partner, sex therapy can help you work through your sexual concerns. I have met the Florida State Board requirements, and I am a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) and the American Board of Sexologists (ABS). I have experience in helping people with a wide variety of sexual issues, and here is my process.
I also supervise many other therapists in sexual counseling, and I initiated and participated in local/state movements to increase community awareness about sexual issues. As a researcher and sex therapist, I strive to impact our community about sexual health and sexual fulfillment.
What types of sexual issues can I deal with in Sex Therapy?
Sexual trauma refers to a broad range of sexual violence and assault, including but not limited to, incest, rape, sexual abuse, hate crimes, sexual exploitation, stalking, and sexual harassment. The aftermath of such trauma can have a significant negative impact on an individual’s self-esteem, current and future relationships, and overall happiness and well-being.
The most common effects of sexual trauma are depression, sexual dysfunction, PTSD, self-mutilation, substance abuse, flashbacks, anxiety, anger, guilt, shame, and isolation. Of course, none of these are exclusively related to sexual trauma. As a result, it can be challenging to pinpoint the effects of sexual trauma. Pinpointing the consequences is especially true as symptoms can sometimes occur many years after the experience.
It is vital to understand that by not addressing these issues, the effects can escalate exponentially. Seeking help from a qualified sex therapist can be extremely beneficial in understanding sexual trauma and all that accompanies it. Even if there are little or no evident symptoms, it’s vital to seek therapeutic help immediately. Information is essential in dealing with sexual trauma.
Addiction to sex can be a severe issue. Although it is not formally recognized as a disorder by the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, “sex addiction” refers to any sexual behaviors that seem obsessive or compulsive. These actions can include repetitive masturbation, internet porn, phone sex, and so on. These addictive behaviors can negatively impact your self-esteem, your job, your social circles, and your relationships. Here is a sexual addiction assessment.
Sex addiction can impact you and your family members in the same way as any other addiction. Typically, as the sexual issue progresses, the adverse effects increase. These behaviors may not progress beyond compulsive masturbation or extensive use of pornography, phone, or computer sex services. Alternatively, they may develop into much more severe and even illegal activities, such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation, and rape.
Any sexual behaviors that seem addictive or that appear to cause significant distress in your daily functioning should be taken seriously. If you suspect that you or a family member may suffer from this type of condition, you should seek help with a qualified sex therapist, primary care physician, or any other appropriate professional. The problem may not seem that serious right now, but it could get much worse. A qualified professional can help you to get to the root of the issue.
Dr. Constance DelGiudice is a Board Certified Sex Therapist
practicing in Stuart, Florida.